How To Set A Table For The Ultimate Thanksgiving Dinner (2024)

If you're hosting Thanksgiving, you're so busy with planning a menu, shopping, decorating, and getting your home guest-ready, that the tablescape can feel like an afterthought. But with all the work you're putting into the biggest meal of the year, that's the last thing you want to do. You want a table worthy of the feast you're about to lay on it.

That's why we rounded up some of the best tablecloths, dishes, glasses, silverware, napkins and napkin holders, and table decor for Thanksgiving. But first things first: How exactly do you set a table? While formal settings can get more persnickety, the step-by-step instructions below for how to set a table are a good guideline for dinner parties.

  1. Cover the table with a tablecloth and/or charger plates or placemats.
  2. Lay out the plates. If you're using charger plates, don't put dinner plates out ahead of time — when dinner's served, you'll want to remove each charger and replace it with a dinner plate. Otherwise, dinner plate is in the middle, salad plates or bowls on top, and bread plates go above the dinner plate and to the left.
  3. Place the napkin to the left of the plate, though it also can be placed on top of the dinner or salad plate. Your call!
  4. On the left-hand side of the dinner or charger plate, place the salad fork and dinner fork, left to right. On the right-hand side of the charger or dinner plate, place the dinner knife, salad knife, and soup spoon, left to right. For knives, the blade should face inward.
  5. Place the dessert fork and/or spoon directly above the dinner plate. Dessert is typically served on the dessert plate, so that does not need to be set out ahead of time.
  6. For drinkware, water glasses go to the right, above the knives. Wine glasses go to the left. If you're pairing wines with courses, set the glasses from right to left in the order they'll be served.

Now, that you know how to set a table, check out some of our favorite items to complete your Thanksgiving tablescape.

Tablecloths and Charger Plates

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Zara Home Linen Tablecloth ($109)

Go classic fall with this burnt orange linen tablecloth.

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Lithuanian Linen Tablecloth, Watercolor Florals ($188)

This watercolor-inspired tablecloth has just the right amount of autumn color while tempering it with cool shades of mauve and blue.

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MagicLinen Linen Tablecloth ($51+)

If you're using warm colors and wood on your table, they'll pop against a light blue.

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Monique Lhuillier Melrose Glass Charger Plate ($30)

Made from soda glass that's 10% recycled, this charger plate sets the scene for all the plates and bowls that will top it.

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West Elm Pewter Metal Charger ($30)

Invite some natural elements to your table with this deep-gray charger plate.

Dinnerware

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Anthroplogie Hayes Side Plates, Set of 4 ($48)

Modern and minimalist, this stoneware collection keeps a low profile while adding a pop color.

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Our Place Everyone's Invited ($375)

All the items in this 36-piece hand-glazed ceramic dinnerware set have a natural, satin-finish exterior and a glossy inside that's scratch-resistant.

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Fortessa Dinnerware Solutions Textured Glass Dinnerware, 16-Piece Set ($149)

Tinted glass is a pretty way to invite some subtle color to dinner.

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Zara Home Complete Porcelain Tableware Set With Rim ($250+)

This earthy porcelain dinnerware is a full set, and it includes bowls, coffee mugs, and dinner, soup, and dessert plates.

Napkins

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Atelier Saucier Peppermint Floral Napkins, Set of 4 ($88)

Made with 100% reclaimed fabric, these napkins will add some quick depth to your table.

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H&M 2-Pack Linen Napkins ($13)

You'll want to stock up on these linen napkins that look pricier than they are. You can use them year-round.

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A Quilt in Every Room Mismatched Large Dinner Napkins, Set of 6 ($39)

When colors coordinate, mismatched napkins can be a fun, playful moment. Of course, it's much easier when they're sold as a set.

Napkin Rings

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Crate & Barrel 3-Ring Wood Napkin Ring ($5)

Three interlocking rings of beach wood will ground napkins with an earth element.

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H&M 2-Pack Macramé Napkin Rings ($7)

Create a macramé moment with these woven napkin rings.

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Macondo Forever Autumn Orchid Napkin Ring ($7, was $12)

Handwoven with straw, these boho napkin holders in marigold will be the first thing guests notice on your table.

Utensils

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CB2 20-Piece Modern Brushed Champagne Gold Flatware Set ($109)

If you ever wanted to try gold silverware but were afraid it'd be too much, this matte champagne set is gilded without feeling gaudy.

Utensils

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Mepra Italian Flatware, Fantasia Color Flatware 20-Piece Set ($371)

Silverware isn't typically where we think to add color, but maybe it should be? Mix and match colors or run with one.

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Hay Colour Chopsticks, Set of 6 Pairs ($28, was $40)

If you're serving a dish that'd be better eaten with chopsticks, don't be afraid to include them at each place setting. Just center them directly above the dinner plates.

Glassware

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Anthropologie Morgan Coupe Glasses, Set of 4 ($56)

Toast the 1920s with these color coupe glasses that can be used for co*cktails or Champagne.

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Glasvin The Universal Wine Glass, Set of 6 ($237)

Possibly the lightest glass you'll ever lift, this all-purpose wine glass is one you'll want to keep forever.

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Oake Stackable Water Glasses, Set of 4 ($50, was $71)

Made with soda lime glass, these stackable water glasses can hold plenty of H2O.

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Zara Home Crystalline Tumbler With Raised Design ($10)

Made with 100% crystal, these glasses are just begging for an oversize ice cube.

Table Decor

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Anthropologie Gradient Vase ($32)

Mixing warm and cool tones, this glass vase will complement a variety tables while bringing in a hint of color.

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Anthropologie Recycled Glass Bud Vases, Set of 3 ($36)

Instead of one big vase in the middle, try scattering a few small ones throughout the table's center.

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The Quiet Botanist Natural Botanist ($88)

While fresh flowers are always a good idea, dried bouquets feel made for fall's final days.

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POWFinds Colorful Retro Vintage Glass Candlestick Holders ($19+)

Mix and match taper candles to vary height around the table.

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How do I set the table for Thanksgiving? ›

Align the bottom of the silverware with the bottom of the plate. Stemware should be arranged at the top right of the place setting. Top it all off with a napkin nestled inside a pretty napkin ring or try a fancy napkin fold. You can also add place cards or party favors to the setting.

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Stuffing. Good stuffing is key to a successful Thanksgiving dinner. At its simplest, stuffing is seasoned bread cubes mixed with onions and herbs. The stuffing is traditionally baked inside the bird but can also be baked in a separate baking dish.

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People naturally want to move from left to right at a buffet table, so take advantage of that flow: start with stacks of plates on the left end of the table, then follow them with the turkey (and any other big proteins you might be serving) and then heavy, starchy dishes like mashed potatoes and stuffing (and anything ...

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What should a Thanksgiving table look like? ›

A traditional Thanksgiving table setting might start with a tablecloth, a table runner, and cloth napkins finished with napkin rings. It may include a centerpiece of flowers, pumpkins, autumn leaves and/or fruit, votive or taper candles, and formal china, silverware, place cards, and wine and water glasses.

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How do you set a beautiful buffet table? ›

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  6. Position strategically. ...
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What is the proper order to set up a buffet table? ›

The order that items should be placed on the table is as follows: plates first, sides second, any fancy dishes such lobster are third, cutlery and napkins should be the last items on the table.

How to decorate the table for Thanksgiving? ›

Capture the abundance of nature's beauty through fall wreaths and garlands. Use greenery decorated with autumn accents as your Thanksgiving centerpiece, then match it with food and table napkins in complementary colors. Small fruits or vegetables can also serve as napkin holders or place cards for the table.

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